Happy New Year

Jena and I are back in Savannah to end 2009 but we will be home soon.  15 hours through Atlanta, Nashville, St. Louis then back in KC (ugh).  I will be back next week with a new blog post and information.  I used to think that New Year's resolutions were cheesy but I have realized that I continuously have room for growth and improvement in my life.  Whether it be spiritual, physical or family and marriage, it's still a good time to evaluate and improve.  A resolution does not guarantee any change but it's a start.  Realization is the first step.  Happy New Year to everyone!  

Happy Holidays

The gang is all home for Christmas.  For those of you who have kids, you can appreciate the fact that the process of taking a family picture (like the one above) is not as peaceful as it appears.  However, you gotta love the holidays.  It's great to have a full  house.  We may have a "White Christmas" here in Kansas City.  The extended forecast is calling for snow but when you get snow on a regular basis it's not like a white Christmas in Phoenix or Tampa.

Things are winding down here at Doulos.  Shelterwood High School wraps up tomorrow and Christmas break begins on Wednesday.  A few folks have already started the holiday break and by midweek it will be a ghost-town once again.  Jena and I will be in town all week spending the holidays with our kids.  We will be leaving town next weekend to make the long drive to Savannah.

May all of you have a wonderful Christmas.  Enjoy  your families, the rest, the food, the holidays shows and football games.  Laugh much and eat plenty with a thankful heart!  Jena and I are blessed and thankful to have all of you as part of our ministry team.  

Winter Sunset

Seems like the cold makes everything just a little sluggish.  Each week I get one more day behind on my blog??  It is also  tough to head outside into the freezing weather.  With wind chill factor, it was 0 degrees yesterday.  Brrrrr.

The sun was out today, just in time for our 

Doulos Day field trip to the Crown Center Ice Terrace.  It was clear that none of us are pro skaters which made it all the more fun.  A fun, festive, time.

Jena and Justin wrapped up the Fall semester at Blue River this week.   No more studies for a month!!  Justin will be leaving home following Christmas and moving to Boulder, CO to attend the University of Colorado.  It will take some time adjusting to his absence but he is ready.  

We will, once again, have a full house starting this weekend.  A family Christmas that I feel blessed to celebrate. 

 

Midwestern December

December is always a quick month at Shelterwood.  In two short weeks the Christmas break begins.  Last Thursday we had our monthly family night which included a holiday dinner in the home of one of our directors.  For chapel next Thursday we are having a coffee shop and open mic to carry out the holiday spirit and next Wednesday, more ice skating at Crown Center with the Leadtime class.  There is no shortage of yule tide cheer at Doulos.  We are up to 22 kids now with 11 in each house.  I anticipate some departures at Christmas but 2 0r 3 more families are in the Que.

The Midwestern cold has arrived.  Fortunately for us, the snowfall is scheduled to miss Kansas City this time around but it is still freezing outside.  The humidity that keeps things steamy in the summer makes for a bitter cold during the winter months.  Jena is up to her old tricks with the Christmas decorations in the house.  Quite festive. Our home here in Independence is much larger than the one we had in Broomfield so our house does not feel like the gift shop that it did in Colorado with more room to spread out the Christmas items.  

I trust you are all enjoying lots of holiday cheer!  

Holiday Whirlwind

As advertised, Thanksgiving at the Albright's was fantastic!  We had plenty of turkey and watched a slew of football games and Christmas movies.  I wish I could have seen more of my extended family, but it sure was nice to not have to travel.  

During the Thanksgiving holiday, we celebrated Kaiden's 4th birthday at Chuck E. Cheese.  November 28th.  Justin, Corey, Kaiden and I had over 180 tokens to burn through and we were up for the challenge.  Boys will be boys.  

Jena and I celebrated our 7th wedding anniversary on Sunday, November 29th.  We went ice skating downtown Kansas City at the outdoor Crown Center Ice Terrace.  It's sort of KC's version of Rockefeller Plaza.  Quite festive with a giant Christmas tree, decorations and lights.  To cap off the weekend, we pulled our Christmas decor out of the attic and lit up the house - inside and out.  

Shelterwood's Thanksgiving break wraps up today.  Back to "normal" for the most-part tomorrow.  Thanksgiving - check.  Kaiden's birthday - check.  Anniversary - check.  Next up...the Christmas blitz!

Gobble, gobble

If you're like me, you're scratching your head wondering what happened to 2009?  November 23rd...really?  Thanksgiving is only days away.  This year, our family will be staying home in Independence, MO enjoying a small crowd.  Just 5 of us this year.  Jena, myself, Corey, Justin and Kaiden.  With Jena in the kitchen, we are assured plenty of food.   Lots of turkey and, of course, the annual Dallas Cowboys game.  Now that I'm the dad, we eat around the game.  When I was a kid I had to miss part of the game to eat.  Can you believe that?  Gotta get my priorities straight.  Anyway, I pray and hope that all of you have a blessed Thanksgiving with your friends and family!

A few words about Shelterwood....things are pretty quiet.  Thanksgiving break started on Saturday and most of the kids are now gone.  There are a few stragglers but it was a ghost town at work today.  

The Narrow Road

Last week was Shelterwood Beyond.  While half of the Doulos team of staff and residents was busy serving locally including some shelters and a Habitat for Humanity project, I was up in Rushville, MO on the Narrow Road retreat.  In order to provide a more intimate environment of service and spiritual growth, we split up to focus on personal relationships.  I led worship and enjoyed good times around the fire pit sharing stories and exploring small group discussion surrounding our theme of "Deeper."  The location was God's Mountain retreat center, a spot we frequent two or three times a year.  We had three different special guest speakers including two folks from local church Life Connection and one of our own house directors.  It was amazing.  Are you compartmentalizing your life?  How does the Gospel transform you?  What are you putting before God?   What is the next step?  Just a few of the questions that we spent many hours diving into over a 48 hour period.  We enjoyed some light hiking and beautiful sunsets.  It was a real blessing and a great launching pad for many of the kids including myself.  Typically the residents who are further along in the program will attend the Narrow Road  but some younger kids were in attendance too balancing out a group of fertile hearts to explore the deep things of God.  It was a good week.    

Things are getting back to normal.  Today we had another intake

 and received girl resident into the Shelterwood family bringing our current total to 10 girls and 11 boys.  Thanksgiving break will begin this coming Saturday.  Stay tuned!

A Week in the Mile-High City

As I sit here updating my weekly blog I am watching the Denver Broncos on Monday Football and reminded of the week I just spent in the Mile High City.  As most of you know, I lived in the Denver area for 10 years and I left friends, family, familiar faces, an empty house and a decade of memories for Kansas City in the summer of 2008.  

So how was it?  Fan-freaking-tastic.  I spent the early part of the week connecting with guy friends, mostly single or newly wed.   That was interesting for a 40 year old vet, but the moments were oh-so-precious.  Animated conversations, lots of laughter, and endless stories.  Sean, Greg, Matt, Nick, Corey, Keith, and Phil.  I also spent time with my daughters Sumer, Savannah and Samantha.  Jena arrived on Thursday via Southwest Airlines and we spent time with my sister Sherrolyn, who recently moved to Colorado from Sacramento.  Jena and I had a chance to visit dear friends, Desi, Amanda, Melissa, Rick, Josh, Bree, Pam, Stephanie and so many more.  The wedding was Saturday evening up in Evergreen, CO.  Absolutely beautiful.  Congratulations to Sean and Julia Brock, November 7, 2009.  

Jena took the 90 minute flight home on Sunday and I made the 9 hour drive.  With miles to kill, I had plenty of opportunity to reflect on all the deep friendships.  It is truly a gift from God and it blows my mind every time.  It's like no time ever elapses.   

I am back in KC.  This week is Beyond at Doulos and tomorrow I leave for a 3 day spiritual retreat.  It's known as the Narrow Road and I will be leading worship.  God is good.  

2009 Fall Parent Weekend

 The 2009 Fall Parent Weekend concluded on Sunday afternoon and, as you can see, has me in a slight delay with my weekly Blog.  I am taking the week off from Shelterwood and I drove from Kansas City to Denver immediately following the dismissal of Sunday's parent weekend events.   My good friend Sean is getting married on Saturday and so I am spending the week reuniting with friends and family in the Denver area.  

About Parent Weekend, though, it had the usual running parts--you know, seminars, meetings, big meals, talent show,  share time--but it is the little things that stand out.  Things like working with the kids musically and watching their parents beam as they perform during chapel and talent night.  Things like a simple meal with mom's and dad's talking about life.  Life as a parent and life as a Believer.  As always it is was richly rewarding to see relationships, once filled with strain and loss of hope, find healing and growth.  It is rewarding to literally watch kids and parents laugh and embrace.  Sure, there are still the kids that want nothing to do with mom and dad, but we'll get there.  God is interested in the process.  It takes time to undo the mess we so often make of our lives and relationships.  If God can extend grace to my mess, I can certainly extend grace to the families of Shelterwood.  

Busy weekend for Wolverine

It was a busy week and even busier weekend.  As you can see from the picture, we had our annual Halloween party on Friday night.  A cheetah, Wolverine, and few other interesting characters made appearances in our home. It was a cool evening and Jena had several soups prepared.  Earlier in the day, Jena and I drove to Warrensburg, MO to visit Central Missouri University.  Jena is transferring to UCM possibly in the Spring to continue her Education major.  On Saturday afternoon we celebrated Corey's 13th birthday a few weeks early.  I took a rowdy group of middle school boys to play dodge ball and football followed by cupcakes, Mountain Dew, and Call of Duty.

Back on the campus of Shelterwood, things are equally busy.  This coming weekend is Parent Weekend and that always brings plenty of stress, anxiety and worry from the staff and residents.  It always works out well but folks seem to go nuts over the preparation and anticipation.  I might need to show for work in full Wolverine costume to bring some reason and laughter???  The Killer B's are working on a Cold Play cover song to perform this weekend (Fix You) and we have a full drama/play organized by one of our own female residents.  On a more serious note, the Shelterwood staff and parents could use your prayers this weekend.  It is always a time of tremendous growth and healing.  Specifically, pray for us to get out of the way and for God's agenda to prevail.  

Another picture of Fall

The giant Shelterwood tree pictured to the right shows the changing colors of Fall and the unchanging strength of strong roots.  Characteristics of the One who created the tree.  As fall fly's by it's hard to believe it is already October 19th.  Next weekend our semi-annual Fall Family Retreat will be here again.  Parents and siblings of our residents will be participating in a full weekend of seminars, conferences, counseling, meals and many stories.  On the heels of  Family Weekend it's time for Shelterwood Beyond Week and the annual Narrow Road retreat. A week of outreach and spiritual growth.  I will attending the Narrow Road retreat again this year and leading worship.   More on that as it draws near.

Our weekly Thursday morning chapel has been going fantastic.  It's great to sit back and watch the residents take the lead role with the music.  Right now I have two guitarist and a bass.  It allows me to sit back play the jimbe (hand drum).  The night shift has been a blast too.  I am still working Wednesday and Thursday evenings in the Boys House.  

  I am so thankful for the beautiful field house with weight room and full gymnasium and the rustic lodges with fireplaces.  The guys lodge even has a mounted deer rack compliments of last year's deer season.  

Despite the buildings and the trees and the vast acreage it still comes down to building relationships, sharing lives and having fun.  As I say so often, I appreciate your commitment to Doulos and Shelterwood and to the families we impact on a daily basis.

The Big Game

It was 30-something degrees yesterday in Kansas City and I was cold the entire time.  Wool socks, beanie, down coat, and still cold.  Justin and I showed up at Arrowhead Stadium at 8:15 am, 15 minutes before the gates opened and took our place in line behind all the other faithful fans waiting to get in.  The Dallas Cowboys were in town; the team I have faithfully cheered for since 1979.  No way was I going to I miss this event. We started tailgating at 8:30 am, as soon as they opened the gates.  Too early for burgers and hot dogs so we cooked breakfast burritos and discussed the ups and downs of the 2oo9 Cowboys including predictions of the upcoming Chiefs game starting at noon.  It would have created a little less anxiety if I had purchased tickets in advance, but we took our chances and bought tickets an hour before kickoff from a local.  Like I said, it was cold, it was loud,  it was raucous, and it was packed.  Never mind that Kansas City was 0-4 going in, they wanted to beat the Dallas Cowboys.  They were also motivated by the sea of blue, white and silver seen everywhere throughout the stands.  In the end, 4 quarters we're not enough for this circus.  The Cowboys and Chiefs went into overtime.  Not only that, each team had the ball twice in overtime before Tony Romo completed a 60-yard touchdown pass to Miles Austin to win the game 26-20.  I don't think I have ever hugged and hi-fived so many strangers before in my life.  I couldn't have asked for a more exciting game.  I guess Doulos news will have to wait one more week.  The buzz from yesterday's game is still on the front of my mind.

October breeze

October has arrived, complete with a cool morning breeze, leaves on the ground and the changing color of the trees.  I love it.  The constant reminder from God of the changing seasons and how they parallel our lives.  

I don't have too much news this week.  I started working in the house on Wednesday night.  I even had a chance to play basketball in the gym two nights in a row.  It was a blast running up and down the court with the guys but I was struggling the next morning to make the walk from the lower parking lot up to the lodge.  As much fun as I have acting like a kid, my body reminds me regularly that I am not.  Aside from the basketball, it was refreshing to spend time with the guys talking, laughing and sharing life on their terms and not just between the scheduled hours of 8 and 5.  

Jena and Justin are still buried in college books.  Justin is planning on transferring to Colorado University in January so his days in KC are numbered.  Jena plans to transfer to Central Missouri in Warrensburg either this spring or next fall.  Hopefully next Monday I will telling you all about the football game at Arrowhead Stadium between the Cowboys and Chiefs.  I am still trying to get tickets so we'll see?  

How about a beach getaway?

Jena and I try to let you, our ministry partners,  know as often as we can just how much we appreciate you.  We can't say it enough, but you are a true blessing to our family and our ministry at Doulos.  One thing we can do to show our gratitude is to share the things we have.  How about a beach getaway?  Jena's family has a house located in Edisto, SC, one block from the beach.  Edisto is about 45 minutes from Charleston.  It's not our home so we can't offer it for free; however, we can get you a low weekend or weekly price.  A special offer to our ministry team.  If you are interested, please contact me directly for details and specific dates at balbright@douloscorp.com.  

It was a routine week at Shelterwood.  Family night was Thursday evening and it was nice to see the staff families, Shelterwood residents and big brothers and sisters interact.  We attended the Kansas City zoo on Wednesday for Doulos Day, a monthly "field trip" sponsored by Leadtime.  Starting this week, I will begin working in the Guys House two evenings a week to assist with direct care of the residents.  That's where it all began 4 years ago.  I showed up for work on a Thursday evening--long hair and all--with a folded up Shelterwood handbook in my back pocket as training.  Thanks Josh, for believing in me (or at least for being desperate enough to take a chance??).  Anyway, I look forward to spending time with the guys on a regular basis.  

School is in session

Yesterday, we received the green light from the county to move into the Field House.  Once again, we moved desks, bookshelves, chairs, and furniture but this time for keeps.  A little less than a year ago, we showed up for work on the new Kansas City property and operated out of one building: the Dining Hall.  School was held in makeshift classrooms with partitions, Jena's office was in the corner next to the fireplace and all phone calls, internet access, meetings, and even chapel was held in one spot.  Now, don't get me wrong, the Dining Hall is a beautiful building but it wasn't long before cabin fever set in.   

The Field House is a state of the art building.  The top floor

opens out to a view of the swimming pool.  The school occupies the third floor and the classrooms are built for teaching with white boards, washing stations for science and individual bathrooms.  The bottom two floors are home to the gymnasium complete with a full stage.  The second floor mezzanine level has a weight room and dance floor which over look the gym.  The landscape is built on a slope which allows ground access at the bottom and top floors.

It's never really been about the buildings.  Whether we occupy a shack, lodge, or new field house, it's about relationships and families.  It was a milestone day for Doulos Ministries.  If you ever make it out to Independence, MO I will gladly give you a tour of the facility!

Diary of a short week

Last week I mentioned the Kansas City Irish Fest so I thought I would share a photo taken with some good friends.  You might notice the green water fountains in the background.  It was a nice touch.  Good times.

Like many of you, it was a short work week with the Labor Day holiday.  I spent the day with Jena, Justin, Corey and Kaiden at home and it was great!  The week still seemed long though?? 

Corey had a Pop Warner football game on Saturday.  An otherwise ordinary event but during the game a stealth bomber flew over the playing field...twice.  The second flyover was at a low altitude too.  It was awesome.

We launched chapel on Thursday.  Our guest speaker did a great job and the music by the Killer B's was excellent.  The B's have updated the Facebook fan page if you'd like to see some pics:

 http://www.facebook.com/pages/Killer-Bs/62870182157?ref=ts

It was great to have NFL football back and, of course, I have to say something about those Cowboys.  How Bout Em?  I enjoyed watching a game last night with a buddy from Shelterwood.  Football: another good reason for building community.

As the Field House nears completion, landscaping/erosion control re-started last week along with the pouring of sidewalks connecting the new building to the Dining Hall and Lodges.  

There you have it.  A diary of a short week.

  

Festive Fall

Fall is probably my favorite season.  I love the cool weather, watching the boys play local football and the sense of excitement a new school year brings.   It's barely Labor Day but the season is in full swing.  Saturday morning was Corey's first football game and the parents were out in full force wearing the black and red of the Fort Osage Indians.  We have also received a great deal of rain and it makes my short morning drive through the country to Doulos resemble a scene from Ireland.  Speaking of Ireland...this weekend  happens to be the Kansas City Irish Fest in the downtown Crown Center district.  Jena and I attended last night with a few friends. We had an amazing time enjoying the live Irish bands, food and festive atmosphere.  Good times.  In fact, following church this morning I realized just how buys this weekend has been.  Thank goodness for Labor Day and a holiday from work tomorrow.  

Chapel starts up this week at Shelterwood.  I enjoy letting the creative juices flow and the kids love the real youth group feel that comes with our weekly Thursday morning chapel.  This year we have a new team of musicians.  I've lost all but one of my original members but two more have joined.  In case you're wondering, things are coming along nicely with the Shelterwood Field House and I would expect completion by the end of September.  Just in time to start using the gymnasium and weight facilities before the cold weather comes.  

 

Over The Hill

Today is August 30th, my 40th birthday.  I am officially on the "other side of the hill now" and I must say the view is not half bad.  Contrary to popular myth, I did not wake up this morning in need of a cane or adult training pants.  Didn't see any extra hair in my ears or nose.  Just another day.  That's not to say I haven't lost a step out on the basketball court or avoided crows feet around my eyes.  I am just enjoying the life I've been given.   My hope is that my spiritual growth will mirror that of my 40 year life journey.  A gradual process of learning and growing filled with gratitude and anticipation.  Sure, I can ask God to gift wrap the answer to all my needs and hand it to me on my spiritual birthday, but what fun would that be?  It would short-change me from the experience.  

It was a quiet week at Shelterwood.  All but two of the kids were home on post-summer break.  The new Leadtimers and most staff were in orientation and training all day.  It's a nice perk to avoid CPR, First Aid and Shelterwood policy training.  Important stuff but tough to endure.   Everything returns to normal on Monday, but then, what is normal at Shelterwood???  

A lazy Sunday

It's Sunday afternoon here in KC and I'm watching a Scooby-Doo marathon with Kaiden.  No, it hasn't been an all day couch-potato thing, I just happened to come across it on the Cartoon Network. Corey (pictured to the right) started Pop Warner football this past week.  Yesterday we attended an all-day scrimmage/jamboree up in Liberty.   It's great to be watching football again.  I toted Justin around and watched practice and games for 6 years and this will be Corey's 4th year.   Jena is busy with college assignments and Justin is buried up in his room somewhere under a stack of books.  Our home is once again, back to boys only.  Lauren left on Friday for GA.  I know I just said in an earlier blog that she was back.  It's complicated.  I can't say that I have any answers but we just keep moving on.

One of my favorite residents, Brian, left the program on Tuesday.  He is starting a new school year and actually lives nearby.  He was also my lead guitarist at the church and it was cool to see him this morning back at New Community Church.  Although back home with his family, the soon-to-be 18 year old, desires to stay at the church and remain on the worship band.   One more Shelterwood relationship that will extend beyond the program.  Love it when that happens.

As expected the new Leadtime class arrived this past week and the kids left Friday and Saturday for Post-Summer Break.  It should be a quiet week back at the Wood this coming week but you never know??  Just wanted to say, again, how much I appreciate the friends and family who follow our ministry and support our work at Doulos.   You make a difference!

Back in the saddle

The weather still says, "Summer time" but the schedule says otherwise.  It's back to school and time to get back in the saddle.  Next week Corey and Lauren return to middle school and Justin and Jena head to college.  A full load for Justin and a few night classes for Jena.  That means no more late nights for the kids and more sleep for me.  Hallelujah!  At Doulos, August tends to represent some transition and change too.  A few of our families have left Shelterwood in preparation of new school semesters back home.  Pretty common occurrence.  This coming Wednesday the new Leadtime class reports.  Leadtime 30, actually, if you can believe that?  The next few weeks will be filled with orientation and training for our new class but we know that no amount of training can truly prepare these young adults for a wild year in Shelterwood.  The guys and girls at Shelterwood are on house trips through next Wednesday and Post-summer Break begins next Friday.  

Following last Friday's Leadtime graduation, our big brothers and big sisters spent a few days off campus on a much deserved retreat and I enjoyed working in the guys house with the teens while they were away.   That part of my job never gets old.  No amount of policy and paperwork can replace personal time spent with the teens...plus the fact that I am still a big kid on the inside.

Jena's last day of work at Doulos was yesterday.  She is officially an employee through the end of the month but her vacation time allowed her to finish Friday.  

Back to School

You know how the grocery stores have Valentine's Day candy on display the day after Christmas? Well, in similar fashion Back To School is upon us in early August.   This weekend is "tax-free" shopping at retail stores for school supplies and back-to-school items.  Poor Justin - Target employee - was dragging himself out the door this morning ready to meet the masses.  This past week we got Corey registered for 7th grade.  A new school for Corey and the same as Lauren who will get signed up for 8th grade next week.  Jena has also decided to return part time to school and will be taking some classes on the same campus as Justin - Blue River Community College.  Kaiden finished his last day of daycare/school on Friday.  With Jena staying home Kaiden will also be staying home.  Definitely an upgrade for Kaiden.  This past week Justin and Corey drove over to Bonner Springs, KS for the annual WARP Tour -- an all day concert of modern rock bands.  They came back exhausted and red faced from the sun but had a blast.

On Friday we celebrated the Leadtime 29 graduation.  A picnic at the park followed by a ceremony in the Boy's Lodge back on campus.  9 graduates.  Lots of family and friends made the trip over to our Doulos property and it was great to honor and recognize the growth and accomplishment of our Leadtime class.   

End of July

Today is the end of July and as the summer transitions to August, so our family transitions to the next chapter.  Tomorrow I will be taking the girls - Sumer, Savannah and Samantha- to the airport for a return flight to Denver.  Hard to believe 6 weeks have passed.  Our time together was amazing and I have no regrets as I feel I "seized the day" while they were here.  Our daughter, Lauren, was supposed to return this morning to Savannah, GA, but instead she is staying in Kansas City and returning home to Jena and I.  For those of you who know that story it is a wonderful homecoming for Lauren.  We are thrilled to have her home again.   In addition to family change, Doulos Ministries is finally eliminating the corporate office back in Denver, CO and with that decision, Jena's role as Office Manager is also being eliminated.  We are not sure how we will proceed as a family but I'll offer more information as we sort things out.   For now, please pray for direction and wisdom. 

Last weekend, my mom was in town for a short visit.  It was her first time to KC since I moved here.  On Sunday we drove out to Topeka for a family

 reunion.  That was a blast.  Great food, tons of people and swimming in Shawnee Lake.  Tuesday was  Samantha's 13th birthday.  More good times, including a lunch date at Culver's for a burger and shake.  Wednesday, a friend offered us 5 free tickets to the Jonas Brothers concert at the Sprint Center.  For a moment, I thought the girls may pass out but they collected themselves and proceeded to have a night to remember.   

As we head into August we have plenty of uncertainties but God remains steady.   It's easy to see life's pain like family returning home or losing your job but it helps to live in life's little moments.  A fresh summertime watermelon, swimming in the lake or even Jonas Brothers tickets.  Blessings!

Childlike faith

Last Sunday, our pastor reminded us that it takes a child's faith to inherit the Kingdom.  Take, for example, Kaiden enjoying the ice cream in this photo.  There is no doubt of whether or not he enjoyed the cone as evidenced by the chocolate all over his face and  t-shirt.  Not a care in the world as to what others think.  Me, on the other hand, I would be wiping my mouth constantly, carefully licking the sides to minimize dripping  and holding the cone away from my clothes to ensure nothing got on me.  Like many of you, I have plenty of things I can worry about in my life right now but as Jesus said in Matthew, no amount of worry will add a single minute to my life.   Rest easy.  Worry less. Enjoy the ice cream in your life because the Kingdom is not far away.

The Boys Lodge opened last week here at Shelterwood and construction resumed this week on the field house.  We are hopeful the field house (which houses the school) will be complete by the end of August in time for the fall semester.  TSTL is still moving at full speed with the final week of camp going on right now outside my window.  The Leadtime class of big brothers and big sisters are on the home stretch and will be graduating soon with a new class starting in mid-August.  

July blessings

It has been a blast spending the summer with my kids.  Long days filled with swimming, staying up late, sleeping in, lots of grillin' and plenty of mosquito bites.  What a blessing!  It is also birthday season.  Justin turned 19 yesterday, tomorrow is Sweet 16 for Sumer and two weeks later Sam will be 13.  19 years passed like a blink of the eye with Justin.  It certainly reminds me of how precious each day is.  Life is just so short to not pursue your passions, love well and laugh often -- all within the freedom of serving the Lord.  

Shelterwood begins week #2 of Beyond today (a break from summer school and living "beyond" the normal schedule).  The girls will be joining TSTL and working with the camp staff and the boys will be out of town camping.  Last week the girls camped and the boys worked with TSTL.   I mentioned last week that construction will resume here on property due to a recent financial blessing.  More good news:  the Boys Lodge has been approved by the county for use!!  The boys will be moving over to the new lodge and the girls will move upstairs from downstairs in the current lodge.   It can sound complicated, I know, but it's a good problem to have.  God's timing is not our own.   

Happy 4th of July

Like most of you, this weekend I celebrated the 4th of July with the family.  So why, do you ask, do I have the Missouri state flag posted to the left instead of the usual stars and stripes?  This was my first Independence Day spent in Independence, MO and it was like no other.  The fireworks that you can legally buy in Missouri are crazy and we joined right in.  The noise makers started yesterday afternoon around noon and by nightfall, it was an absolute war zone.  Smoke, blasts, booms, whistle-screams and sparks on every block.  If you suffer from Post-War Traumaic Stress Syndrome, you would have been in a cold sweat, hiding under a car somewhere.  Needless to say, I had a blast and the kids sure had a blast.  Nothing like lighting the fuse and sprinting for cover.

The first summer session came to and end at Shelterwood.  It was capped off on Thursday by a trial by jury organized annually by our social studies teacher, Ms. Numerick.  The defendant this year was the Big Bad Wolf, accused of murdering two of the three pigs.  I was selected to the jury and after a three hour trial, we found the defendant...NOT GUILTY.  Yes, cheers and gasps could be heard throughout when the verdict was announced.

The Doulos board of directors has been working hard on securing funds for the completion of the buildings and last week it was announced that construction will resume.  Whooo Hooo!  That is great news.  Thanks to all of you for your partnership and prayers!  The first week of our inner city day camp ended well this week.  TSTL (The Sky's The Limit).  It's so cool seeing all three ministries in full swing at the same time.  Shelterwood, Leadtime, TSTL.

 

Farewell Friend

Dedicated to Nick Muroki.

My good friend, Nick Muroki, has decided to leave Doulos Ministries and return to Denver, CO.  Friday was the last day of work and in true "Muroki" fashion we celebrated (for the 3rd or 4th time).  Nick also lived in our home off and on for the for the past year.  He will be missed by myself and the entire family.  Nick and I have served together for 3 years with Doulos and Shelterwood.  Three years ago Nick began his Leadtime year as a Big brother while I was the Guys House Director.  Many adventures, hardships, wild stories and memories came out of that year.  Arguably the most difficult year I have experienced at Shelterwood during my 4 year tenure.  Nick moved into the role as Leadtime intern two years ago and then relocated to Kansas City with the rest of us and has served the past year as a Leadtime recruiter.  Nick is a gifted communicator and few others have exemplified the Doulos heart of community and personal relationship like him.  What others often mistake as a "free" and even "non-committal" approach to life is actually Nick's desire to truly go wherever God calls.  He walks the walk.  Nick will be missed and we all wish him well. 

Sweet Summertime

Summer time has definitely arrived in Kansas City.  90 something today and 97, 98, 96 the next three days respectively.  I'm lovin it.  The survival plan is to lay low during the day, stay inside or in the pool, and then come out at night. Simple.

Fathers Day is today and I had a wonderful time with my kids.  Went to church this morning and this afternoon we took a swim in the recently-completed Shelterwood swimming pool.  Nice.  Capped off the night with some grilled pork chops and home baked cookies, compliments of Jena.  I felt blessed today.  

As advertised, a full week of work awaited me at Shelterwood following my vacation.  I was buried but made it through.  As I mentioned above, the pool is complete.  The Boys Lodge is complete, and has been for several months, but we do not yet have the certificate of occupancy. Still some red-tape with that one so something to keep in your prayers.   Without the Boys Lodge we are unable to increase the number of families we can take in.  There only so much space in the Girls Lodge which houses the staff, the guy residents, and the girl residents.  Oh yeah, one more thing...Doulos TSTL (The Sky's The Limit) inner city summer day camp begins this week!! 

Vacation from vacation

Jena and I made it home safely from Savannah.  Like many of you, I feel like I need a vacation from my vacation.  It probably doesn't help that we both got bad colds while away and made the 15 hour straight-through-the-night drive to get home.  It's back to work tomorrow so today (Sunday) is truly a day rest.

Had a great time in Savannah.  Spent several days at the beach on Tybee Island.  I tried to catch high tide with my body board as often as I could.  The 70 degree ocean water is wonderful.  I don't miss the days of numb and blue feet from northern California and the Pacific.  Jena and I had dinner one night at Uncle Bubba's Oyster House.  If you ever watch the Food Network you may have heard of it.  Even had a chance to catch a Savannah Sand Gnats baseball game - Single A minor league.  Nothing like it if you like baseball.  

It's good to be home.  Work tomorrow will probably feel like a drinking from a firehouse but Oh well.  Glad I had a chance to get a way with Jena for a few days.

Back in Savannah

Jena and I made the drive to Savannah yesterday to begin some vacation time.  We started Thursday night at 6pm from KC and arrived at 11am on Friday morning.  I know, it sounds brutal but when you gotta drive, it's the best way to make it straight through, especially with a 3 year old passenger.  1000 miles, 15 hours, and only two fuel stops.  I stopped somewhere near St. Louis on the Illinois side to pick up an audio book.  Indiana Jones and the Kingdom of the Crystal Skull.  Not exactly the best literature but it worked.  We made it safely.  

Shelterwood break ended last weekend and summer school started,  just as planned.  It was actually a pretty full week at the Wood.  We hired a new Shelterwood Director, Todd.  The previous director was carrying 3 jobs on campus and it was time to delegate.  A new Leadtimer joined our team, Doug.  The new class normally starts in August but occasionally we get someone eager to start early.  A new resident arrived Thursday and another will come Monday while I'm gone.  Will worry about that later...for now, it's off to the beach.

Blessings!

Summer break

It's been a slow week around here.  Staff usually rolls in between 8:45 and 9.  The kids wander past my office and into the front room around 11 with bed hair and asking about breakfast. Between now and Sunday all will return to normal.  Summer school starts Monday.  Half days  Monday through Thursday.  Back at the Albright home, summer break has arrived too.  Yesterday was Corey's last day and last week was Justin's.  Both boys hit the movie theatre in the afternoon and were probably up late last night.  Only a matter of days until boredom sets in.  Oh....the days of summer.     

Memorial Day

It's Memorial Day weekend and so many milestones have passed.  The kids all left for pre-summer break today.  It will be quiet around the ole' Wood for the next week.  Lots of hot pockets, frozen wings, and nuggets for those left behind.  The kitchen schedule goes into "break mode" and the prepared meals are temporarily gone.  Yesterday was the last chapel of the season.  Brought back a lot of memories because I remember the last chapel in Denver.  We will resume again at the end of August but lots will change by then.  A new Leadtime class.  Many new residents and probably even some turnover with staff.  I wrote a special song for the last chapel titled, "Ode to Chapel."  It was one of my typical Adam Sandler style songs with plenty of humor from life at the Wood.  It was a riot.

On a more somber note, one of our residents was pulled from the program today.  A guy who's been here for 17 months.  Always tough.  Honestly I think it will be good for him and the reasons are complicated.  It's times like these that I am reminded that I am entrusted by God to pour into the lives of these young people.  Could be a month...could be 17 months.  I give all I have because I never know how long it will be.  "Thanks God," for trusting me and "Thanks to my supporters for making this a reality.

Parent Weekend

Ok, so what about Parent Weekend?  Seems like it was eons ago but it was actually a little more than a week ago.  It was a smashing success.  Sure, we had the usual spots (those of you familiar with Shelterwood know what I mean)....Leadtime testimonies, Take-a-Big-to-breakfast, the Friday Night Talent Show, Parent Groups, The huge meals and clean up duty, Sunday morning chapel and family share time.  We didn't exactly re-invent the wheel but it was still awesome.  I had some encouraging conversations with several parents and the whole experience was authentic.  Two times a year during our parent weekends, I get to see the transformation of lives and the restoration of families up close.  I know....dramatic, but still true.  

I deeply appreciate all of your support.  Jena and I will be reviewing our ministry and support process in the next few months.  If you know of someone who may be interested in following our ministry and possibly supporting financially, please let me know.  I can still be reached balbright@douloscorp.com.  Blessings!

Camp Galilee

I'm sitting here at the computer on a Saturday afternoon blogging and still pretty exhausted from a week of summer camp in Eldorado Springs, MO.  Got home last night and it was an absolute blast!  The house directors did an amazing job organizing camp and my role was simply a team leader.  Had a cabin of about 5 boys and a few other leaders.  During the daytime we  served Camp Galilee with work projects and the rest of the day was filled with camp activities.  My team worked on thinning out trees and brush around the beautiful lake.  Had a chance to work the chain saw and I'm feeling it in my shoulders and forearms.  The afternoons were full of games including a low ropes course, several relay races, egg drop competition, team skit, volleyball and tons more.  I was the leader of Team Blue aka, "TNT--short for Troubled Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles"  (..and yes...we won the best team name competition).  We also won the entire week-long competition with a first place prize to Cold Stone ice cream for the whole team.  Any surprises, from Brian "Mr. Competitive" Albright???

The evenings included a Club time with some fun songs and worship led by myself and some fantastic messages from our house staff.  The kids and staff had great attitudes and the whole week was a smashing success.  Between the quiet times, worship, games, bon fires and work projects, God was most definitely present and pleased.  Thank you so much for your part in this ministry.  I had several meaningful conversations throughout the week with campers and staff and your faithful support makes trips like Camp Galilee a reality for my ministry.  Blessings.

(more to come later on parents weekend).

Killer B's, Silver Dollar and Parents.

Lots of stuff going on here at the ol' Wood so I will try and be brief.  The Killer B concert was this morning.  Stellar performance by the band--Brian, Ben, Brad, Brooke, Brian, Bob, and Kristin.  Amazing music with lots of energy.  Later this evening the parents will begin showing up for our semi-annual Family Weekend Retreat.  Folks from all over the country.  Thursday evening through Sunday afternoon.  Please pray for this event.  I look forward to meeting the families again and expanding our ministry beyond the residents.  Next week, we will be off to Camp Galillee for off-property, week-long all-house camping trip.  I'll try and catch everyone up on parents weekend and the house trip after I come back.  Going to be a busy weekend followed by a busy week. 

Bye the way, our trip to Branson and Silver Dollar City was awesome.  Jena, the boys, and I had a great time.  The weather turned out nice and our hotel had the One important amenity:  a pool.  

Branson

Jena and I are taking the boys to Branson, Missouri and Silver Dollar City this weekend.  It's been a crazy year so far and we are looking forward to some quality family time.  I last saw Silver Dollar City 10 years ago and it will be the first time for Jena, Corey and Kaiden.  I am certainly thankful for the opportunity of this short break.  

Tomorrow is our weekly chapel followed by an all-day work project.  Getting ready for Parent's Weekend April 30th- May 3rd and there is plenty of touch-up work to be done.  Parents roll into town next Thursday and it is sure to be a wild ride.

Spring is here

It's nice to finally turn the corner from winter to spring.  Sure, we still have cold days but more
 often than not, the sun shows up.  It was a busy spring week here in Kansas City.  On Saturday we attended a sunny easter egg hunt along with the rest of Independence.  It was fun, crowded and a little nuts.  The next day on Easter Sunday, it was cold and bitter but that didn't stop the egg searchin' or the celebratin'.  We had record attendance at New Community Church and filled up two services.

On Monday Justin and I headed out to the newly refurbished Kaufman Stadium and watched the Royals and Indians play.  We even brought the grill and did a little tail-gating.  It was still in the 40's on Monday and with the breeze it felt like 4 so we only lasted until the 5th inning.  Go Royals!

In some other not-so-exciting news, I had a chance to visit the UMKC Dental School on Tuesday.  Ugh.  Looks like I am getting a root canal but the cost at UMKC is about 1/3 of usual so I am thankful for that.  This week we have the Doulos Board of Directors in town so please keep those men in your prayers.  The building are not done, money is tight and the economy is tough but we are up to 19 residents now.  If you recall, we started with 5 in September.   In all things, God remains faithful.  Thanks for all of your continued support!!

Risen Indeed

It's a rainy Good Friday here in Kansas City.  Makes for green grass in the neighborhood and mud out at the ol' Wood.  Today is actually a Doulos holiday and I am thankful for the rest but it sure made for a busy Thursday.  Two days work cramped into one.  It's worth mentioning that yesterday's chapel was, once again, amazing.  Guest speaker, Angel, shared about accepting God's love and had plenty of pics from her world travels.  The kids performed a human video to the song, "Everything" by Lifehouse.  The teen-led worship band did a bang-up job too.  It brings a smile on my face to see the residents growing in faith and stepping up with involvement.

I am looking forward to celebrating Easter weekend.  Two services are planned at New Community Church and the band is opening up with Boulevard of Broken Dreams by Green Day.   We're taking Kaiden to a couple different egg hunts in the area and somehow a ham will probably make into the mix on Sunday afternoon.  Fun times and good stuff but in all seriousness, this weekend is The Reason why we do what we do.  He is risen.  Let's celebrate!

Chapel

I have mentioned it briefly in most of my blogs, but 2 or 3 times a month we have chapel on a Thursday morning from 8:45 to 9:30.  It in the past it has been a pretty tough crowd but God has really blessed us in KC.  One of my many "other duties as assigned" is to run chapel.  I have enjoyed letting the creative juices flow with this responsibility.  Brings me back to my youth pastor days.  I have shared a few times, but most slots have been dished out to others.  Big brothers, Leadtime, Shelterwood and corporate staff, friends and pastors from the community...it's been a mix.  My role is to set up the speakers along with the music and other stuff.  During the process a worship band of residents has been formed, young adults have stepped up and gained experience speaking in front of teen crowds and the community has been pulled in.  We have tackled open questions from the kids, heard amazing personal testimonies and had plenty of fun in the process.  I try not to let things get dull by changing it up.  As noted in my last blog, the Killer B's are coming at the end of the month and next week a former missionary to Africa.  The chapel season is winding down and will cease during the summer semesters before resuming in the fall but God has been good.  We continue to fight for families and relationships at Doulos but not without a good Word and some fresh worship.

Killer B's to Aunt B

I think the WWE experience carried me through all last week.  I was still buzzing about it on Friday.  Oh well...got to move on I guess.  The weather was nuts--lots of sunshine and basketball, plenty of rain to keep KC green, enough wind to annoy everyone and a snow storm that kept most of us inside all day Saturday.  I think Spring is here but not sure?  

Other exciting news: The Killer B's are performing a live concert at Shelterwood on April 30th.  The Killer B's are a local indie rock band of teens that I recently organized. The show is scheduled during the weekly chapel time at Shelterwood.  One of these days I might grow up but until then I'll just keep watching wrestling with my 12-year old, playing in a band with a group of local high schoolers and working with teens and families at Shelterwood.    

Jena and I, along with Justin, Corey and Kaiden drove to Topeka, KS on Sunday to visit and share with my aunt Bonnie and her church.  It was a real blessing to connect with family.  The weather warmed up from Saturday's snow and the people at River of Life Family Church were amazing.  I had a chance to share about life relationships, connecting with others and the simple commandment from Jesus to "Love God, and love others."  

WWE - Live at Sprint Center

Last night Wordwide Wrestling Entertainment (aka WWE) came to the Sprint Center in downtown Kansas City and we were there.  Me, Corey, Jason, Luis and Jeremy.  What a night.  Of all the "professional" sporting events I have attended over the years this one definitely "takes the cake."   The WWE community is nuts.  We waited over an hour just to get inside the Sprint Center and I did not see a single empty seat.  The building holds over 18,000 folks, not sure what the WWE venue holds but it was full and raucous.  WWE runs a top notch show complete with pyrotechnics, rock music, and multi-media introductions and presentations.  Of course, all the favorite wrestlers showed up too.  Ray Mysterio, Triple H, Undertaker, Chris Jericho, Kane, CM Punk, Jeff Hardy, The Great Kali, Edge....just to name a few and believe me, the capacity crowd knew every one by name, record, and most popular move.  

Honestly, the most enjoyable part was watching men become boys, again.  No

, not the wrestlers, but me, Jeremy, Luis and Jason.  Kids in a candy store.  We laughed, screamed, chanted, hi-fived, raised fist and clapped.  Good times with good friends.  Like I've said many times before, life is meant to be shared.  Surround yourself with good friends and enjoy your version of WWE every once in a while.

Let the Madness begin...

What a way to end Spring Break at Shelterwood?  March Madness.   Yes, Missouri won the Big 12 tournament.  By the way Jayhawks, how does crow taste?    It was a good week at the Wood.  Played some basketball with the guys, got some much needed filing done, worked in the House a little, and enjoyed  a slower pace for a few days.   No shortage of drama at the ol' Wood.  Plenty of break stories will surface, no doubt, in the days to come.  What else do you expect when families get together and work on relationships?  Good stuff.  This morning in church, the band played Collide by Howie Day.  A great song and a great message.  A good reminder that we need each other and "even the best fall down sometimes." Our family is certainly not immune to hardship.  Our kids could use your prayers as we continue to settle into KC.  We've had rough patches but God is faithful and He has given us good friends who listen and support well.  

Warm weather is coming too.  70's tomorrow and mid 80's on Tuesday.  Blessings!

Then and Now....

Where have the years gone?  The two pictures are from Christmas 2003 vs 2008.  Seems like everyone has grown up and all has changed?  But not so fast....If you look real close, you can still see the plastic snowman in the background of the 08 photo.  Yes, some things we just couldn't part with  during the big move from Colorado to Missouri.  I also noticed that Justin is wearing my sweater in both pics.  Seems to fit him better at age 18 in 2008.  The kids grumbled and complained then...and now about the photo op.  

It's a quiet week around Shelterwood with most kids, staff, and big brothers/sisters on break or vacation.  Plenty of time to get the small tasks done that I have put off and obviously plenty of time for random blogs.  

A week at the Wood

Another fulfilling week came and went at Shelterwood.  As I sit here at the computer on a Saturday morning, the sun is out but I can hear the wind blowing the backyard wind chimes.  More cool weather is coming.  Last Saturday was a "dump" of snow followed by progressive warm weather until almost 70 on Thursday.  It was great.  I even wore shorts to work.  Had a chance to play some basketball with the Shelterwood boys and I didn't even have to wear a long sleeve T.  Amazing.   Spring Break started yesterday afternoon.  Over the weekend most of the kids will make their way home to spend time with parents.  Some will stay back and experience local visits with folks and others will just stay back.  All part of the SW experience.  We had an amazing time at chapel on Thursday.   We had a special guest speaker, Joey, who shared an incredible personal testimony.  Joey is a local believer who spent time working on the Doulos construction project.  I am always amazed at how diverse the Kingdom is.  So may people, so many stories, so many angles, but one God.  Pretty cool. During chapel a few of the girls shared a special song inspired by the recent mission trip to Mexican-Americans in El Paso.  We watched some cool video from last week's community service and El Paso and shared stories. 

Servant Ministry

Shelterwood Beyond.....!  A week of community service with staff, big brothers and residents.  Thank God for good weather and good friends.  Each day we met for prayer and then split up into smaller groups of service.  On Monday, my team of 5 pulled up and cleaned out my elderly neighbors garage.  3 trips to the dumpster, 1 trip to the goodwill and 1 trip to recycling and the task was done.  The joy on the nice lady's face was priceless.  Tuesday we went to a local park and picked up trash.  Strangely enough I found several baseballs and even a new pair of shoes?  Funny what folks throw out.  Wednesday we went to Sanctuary of Hope retreat center in Kansas and laid trails with rakes and wood chips.  Thursday we visited a local church and painted the youth center and decorated Sunday school rooms.  The word Doulos is interpreted as servant and it felt good to take our work and ministry outside the walls of Shelterwood.

Friday was a time of sharing and rest from the week long projects but I had to bail out.  I had plans to take Justin to Warrengsburg, MO to visit Central Missouri University.  Another step in the journey of parenting.  The UCM campus was beautiful with old brick buildings and roughly 11,000 students.  Interesting tidbit: American Idol winner, David Cook, attended UCM. Go figure?  Anyway, Justin plans to transfer in next Fall or Spring.  

Thank you, as always, for serving my ministry through your prayers and financial support.  You are Doulos to me and I deeply appreciate it.  Blessings!

Shelterwood and Beyond

Shelterwood....

We had an amazing chapel this week (you know, the one I told about below in my last blog).  Our Shelterwood Director, Brad, addressed free will and the question of "eternal damnation" and a "fallen world."  Tough subject but Brad was up to the challenge.  Next, our counseling director, Sheri, focused on "how can God love us even though we disappoint Him everyday."  Stellar job by Sheri.  I wrapped up the discussion with "can I be free" and "how do I accept God's love and forgiveness."  My answer?  Freedom comes through our brokenness.  Yeah.  We're all broken and the need for God and others (community) brings freedom through confession and openness.  The weight of "having it all together" is crushing and brings no freedom at all.  Chapel closed with four of our kids performing Details in the Fabric by Jason Mraz.  Amazing stuff.

And Beyond...

Next week is beyond week, which means community service and missions for all.  The regular schedule is suspended and staff, leadtime and residents will work together off property to serve others.  We have a group headed south to El Paso for mexican-american missions and a group is staying here in KC to serve locally.  I'll be local and will report next week on the events.

 

Random Update

What do I see in this random picture of a winter sunset here at Shelterwood?  A construction trailer is an ongoing reminder of the unfinished work...the swing and slide represents our inner city summer camp, The Sky's The Limit, resuming in a few short months...the gazebo (behind the tree) is host to many a life changing conversations and, of course,  the icon Shelterwood tree.  The point?  What appears random rarely is.

The latest on my life and ministry:

At Shelterwood: Leadtime parent's weekend just concluded.  An annual event where the folks of our Big Brothers and Big Sisters come out and see what in the heck is going down at Shelterwood.  Eye opening and impactful.   Got a new resident last week.  Brings us back up to 17 total.  Thursday chapel is still amazing.  Last week one of our Big Brothers shared a powerful testimony and next week I am addressing some questions I fielded from the kids a few months back.  How does one accept love and forgiveness from God?  Can I be free?  How can God justify eternal damnation?  Good stuff. 

At Home:  Jena had a birthday last Friday and daughter Lauren turned 14 yesterday.  This weekend we're having the 14 year old middle school girl party.  Ugh.  Kaiden thinks the whole house is his person Indy 500 with his tricycle and the wooden floors.  Working on taxes this week.  Double Ugh.  Some good news though, the formerly flooded basement is now finished.  Carpet came yesterday!!

Blessings and thanks to all who continue to faithfully support the work of Doulos Ministries!

Mr. Case Manager

So this is me, Shelterwood Case Manager.  Sitting at my desk with new fancy eye glasses, a nice shirt to keep the brass happy but plenty of "Shack" attitude to bring uneasiness to the occasional complacency.  So what exactly is my role as CM? After all, my adventure at Shelterwood has been anything but predictable.  

First, there is the routine stuff.  I make sure the files of all our residents are up to state regulation,  I audit the medical records to ensure there no gaps and I keep the finances reconciled.  This usually involves frequent communication with counselors and parents and lots of time on the phone with doctors and insurance companies.  Exciting stuff, but someone has to do it.  

Second, there is the implied stuff.  As a former House Director, I support the current HD's with insight, mentoring, and administration.  We work in the same office and they don't really report to me but I try to provide a positive, calming, presence, when things go awry in the House.  The HD's are quite a bit younger than this old dog so I try and bring some life experience and even parental wisdom to the Shelterwood world.

Finally there are the extra's.  This probably takes half my time.  I have become the resident youth pastor organizing all the chapel services and leading worship.  I have become an unofficial counselor participating in our bi-weekly group therapy sessions.  As the worship leader at NCC I involve residents in the worship band.  I host a weekly guys night in my home with the young Shelterwood staff and still spend plenty of time taking kids to the Quick Trip for coffee or playing basketball on the outdoor courts.    

So there you have it, Shelterwood Case Manager.  A new position and title for Doulos but some not-so-new responsibilities.    

A Thin Place

A few times I have mentioned New Community Church and my role with the worship team but with few details.  I discovered NCC back in August shortly after our move to KC.  I started out playing a hand drum here and there and even played the drum set a few times after the church purchased a new kit.  But one thing led to another and I am now the worship director.  Crazy how God opens doors and works things out.  I am humbled to serve and blessed to be surrounded by authentic followers of Christ.  My good friend Jeremy is the pastor and together we share life, we share vision and many times we share something off the grill on my back deck.  Many of the young adults and residents of Shelterwood have found a home at NCC too.

But why do I worship?  Why do I play?  Sing?  Very simple.   In a Sunday message a few months back, Jeremy made reference to a "thin place."  A place where the gap between God and man; heaven and earth, feels just a little thinner.  Some have found this place in the stillness of a mountain hike or the calm of a stroll on the beach.  My "thin place" is in worship.  Yeah, I know God is everywhere and all that jazz but life is just too diverse and people too unique for everyplace to be the same for every person.  God has hard-wired me to worship.  My hope is to bring a thin moment to others every time I pick up my guitar or bang out a rhythm on the drum.  The real question is "Where is your 'thin place'?"  Find it and go there as often as you can.    

The Shack

The Shack is an incredible novel written by William P. Young about one man's experience with God.  Although this blog is not about that Shack, I still recommend it to ALL my friends.  It will change your life.

Having the day off for MLK I was reflecting on my Shack experience.  Life changing.  It was a staff retreat in the Colorado mountains above Nederland following April 2008 parents weekend at Shelterwood.  It would be the last time we all gathered together before the group would begin to break up.  New jobs, careers, back to school for  some and Kansas City preparation for others.  The cabin was beautiful.  3 floors, probably 12+ bedrooms, multiple fireplaces, and all the rustic fixtures you would imagine in a place like that.    A group of us men found an old, very small and rundown wooden shack a short walk in the snow from the front side of the cabin.  No electricity, no floor or chairs.  Pretty much standing room only.  With only our headlamps for sight and down coats, beanies, and gloves for warmth we shared life.  I laughed until my eyes watered and ribs hurt.  I tried to hold back tears with burning eyes.  We hugged. We punched and at the same time felt the love and acceptance of each other.  God was present and no doubt God was pleased.

I miss the Shack.  I can't help but smile every time I see this picture.  I know that I can't go back but I can choose to value people and relationships.  I can love life and teach others to do the same.  I can love and accept others.  I can bring my experience to other men.  So, you see, the Shack lives on.

The end of the Tunnel

I drove from Denver to Kansas City in April of last year with my family to "check out the area." We stopped by the Doulos property and I  remember seeing two enormous holes carved into the earth.  The Guys Lodge and the Girls Lodge.  As you can see from the pictures, the Guys Lodge is complete and the Field House is not far behind.  I realize that plenty of work still needs completion but I can see the end of the

tunnel.  Doulos Ministries has been blessed with a beautiful 200 acre campus.  Someday we will be able to impact 3 times the amount of families as the old 40 acre Denver campus.  I ask that you continue to pray for the construction.  Safety for the workers.  Wisdom for Ken (Doulos employee and construction guru), and finances.  It is a tough time in our economy and the Doulos directors and board members are working hard to complete the vision.  Thanks to all of you who have faithfully supported my personal ministry and role at Shelterwood.  Because of you---all this--is possible.